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Friday, April 10, 2009

Friday, April 10

"Keep smil'n; keep shin'n, knowing you can always count on me:

A tube with a camera was placed down a tube leading to Deano's lungs and the liquid that was extracted was sent to the lab for testing. The Dr.'s made their rounds at apprx. 10:00 am (oh, yeah - "Ground Hog Day") and basically no changes overall with the exception of a staff infection. At some point today, Dean will be taken for another MRI - hoping for results this evening.

Now the good stuff. My free flowin husband, shit anytime Deano, has not yet had a bowel movement even after days of enema's. Today, however, that was visible in the bloating of his ever so flat muscular belly. I told the nurses all they had to do was drip some Starbucks coffee, preferably Columbian Blend, through his I.V. and they would get what they wanted and then again "Carefull what you ask for". Dean swears by it.

Some may wonder how Riley is fairing and quite frankly he is angry and struggling with alot of emotions. At this time he has chosen not to see his dad in the ICU and will await his transfer from the unit. I struggle internally on how to keep everthing going and have Riley suffer as little as possible in all this and at the same time I feel as though I am in a fog sometimes not even remembering 2 minutes ago.

I am blessed to be surrounded by so much love and support. Today my Mom allowed me to drive to the hospital (baby steps) and Dean's brother Jim has shouldered so much, acting as interpreter during Dr.'s visits and today taking Riley to and from school, working in the garden and then on to Basketball Practice. And May, Dean's Mom, what a comfort to have her here with me at this time. I can not think of any two women in this world who love my husband more. And that is just to mention a few. We have the loving support of friends and family who will just sit and hold my hand, offer hugs and words of encourgement. And to all you out in blog land we love reading the comments. If you want to post any pictures you can email to me and my sister will post. It is not my intent to leave anyone out and there is just so much love and support we could not get through without being wrapped in so many strong arms.

Oh, before I forget we have begun remodeling Deans room in this castle. There are pictures and cards posted every where. I was thinking some nice paisley fabric for around the machines. Maybe another day.

Cause that's what friends are for.......................

17 comments:

Unknown said...

Hello Teri,
Thanks so much for keeping all of us Seattleites informed on Dean Henry's progress.

I, too, have a personal testimony of how Nambs could develop muscles on a diet of "Nilly" wafers - He is truly amazing. I still remember when we were kids hanging out in the Namba's basement eating, watching cartoons & playing pool.......what great memories!

The entire Goetz family has Deano in our prayers. There isn't an hour that goes by without me stopping & thinking of Nambs, you & Riley and how challenging a time this must be. Nambs has always been so strong and I'm sure he'll pull through with flying colors.

Again, our thoughts & prayers are pouring out for Nambs' speedy recovery. God bless you all....

Unknown said...

Teri, So good to have May as your gatekeeper and Jimmy, your interpreter. They'll really help with that fogginess that comes with the shock. Thinking of you all. Sending love, Sue

Unknown said...

Ok Teri, I can already see Dean's PT regiment. Nilla wafers and Columbian Blend. Jeez, with Jim in the garden, May in the house and you with Riley......I
think we're all going to be moving in soon. When you get foggy, and you will, just rely on all those wonderful people you have around you. Friends and family will carry you through.
Ricky "ricky san" Elliott

Anonymous said...

Our thoughs & prayers are with you, Dean is such a Great man, stay strong Teri... Dean will pull through. The Great Lord above is with you, Dean and your Family.

The Mendez Family
Jaime & Robyn friends from work

Unknown said...

Teri, finally got on the blog-mobile. Nice to know what's happening on a daily basis, and who would figure, that I would be doing it on the Internet. Just feel, from our hearts that the 3 of you are in our hearts and prayers, as I've told your mom and kris. Love goes out to you guys, dean's family and of course, your's, uncle dave and Lynn

Hags said...

Teri
I was late on the Nilla Wafer bandwagon about comenting on how the Namba boys could grow muscles and get faster by sitting on the couch watching afternoon TV and eating them so I'll offer a different observation... Try brewing a cup of Namb's favorite coffee and hold it near his nose. That's all I need for the solders to demand to go on manuvers if you know what I mean. Everybody should stand back if you try it!
Elaine, our boys and I are thinking about you. My boys only have seen Nambs a few times when he comes to Seattle to visit but they ask about his progress first thing when I get home from work or check the internet. He's made quite an impression on them just as he has on everyone else he has met. I can't go 15 or 20 minutes without thinking about you guys. Nice to be able to check this website and see how many people love him like we do. We're confident he'll make a great recovery and I'm looking forward to busting his stones for taking the time off from work and family. Thanks for keeping us up to date.
Hags

Unknown said...

Hi - you & Dean have been on our minds & in our hearts since we received Laura's alert & 'Call to prayers'. You both are amazing people & from all the love that's enveloping you, I'm sure Dean will be back with many tales to tell... Thank you for allowing us to share this journey with you... We are sending love, light & healing prayers your way everyday! Much love & big Kauai hugs - Karen & Mark B.

Unknown said...

Hi Teri,
Dean was always up for home improvement so I am sure he is excited about your plans for the remodel of his room. I have some photos I would love to send your way. Please send me your email address and I will pass them along.
Wishing you all the best.
Tim DiMarco email: alkitim@comcast.net

Ronda Clark said...

Hi Teri: I've been thinking about you and your family like crazy! My sister mentioned that you had this blog. Thanks for keeping everyone posted about Deans progress. I know that he is in everyone's prayers. God will give you strength to get through this .. I know he will. Hang in there baby! My prayers are with you, Riley and the rest of your family and friends. Take care! Ronda

Aunt Rose said...

Hi Dean, Teri, & Rily
It was so nice to see the pic of dean sitting up and looking so much more like the old Dean, and you Teri you just have to keep on trucking like they said in the old days, keeping one foot in front of the other, keep on smiling, and say your prayers every time you feel that fog come over you the good lord is not done with Dean he still has lots thing plans for him,you can see it in Dean eyes all the love he has for you Teri so take it all in when you are looking into those of his he may not say it in words and keep holding his hands and giving him kisses he is take it all in too.
Remember we all love you and wish we could take some of that pain you are feeling away from you so you can have a day with pain in your heart,
Love all of you
Aunt Rose

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