Wow busy day:
Every one made it safely into town today.
And today we have a guest speaker:
I've learned why Nambs loves it here so much... It's really beautiful here.
Great to be joined by May and brother Larry today.
First a few clarifications... Contrary to popular belief in the greater Seattle area and who knows where else, Teri's name isn't Teri. It's Maria. Her Mom wanted to name her Theresa but her Dad won that battle. Dad called her Teri for short anyway so that's how it went till she had to actually use a name that was documented.
After she straightened me out on that I helped her out with some Seattle name stuff: Deano's last name is Coles. (He's a childhood neighbor) Dean's name is Nambs (or Namboid). Tim's last name is DiMarco (sorry about the spelling Tim). I'm Hags (Hrags), not Tim. When I showed up Nambs was expecting Tim, not me. It all worked out though.
My observations on Nambs yesterday and today: He's way in there when you look in his eyes and he's working his way out. It takes several moments for our questions to sink in and several more for his response. If there are no distractions his responses are mostly accurate. His Physical Therapists (I wish this thing had spell-check) tell me he is improving along these lines.
Yesterday I got to see him roll over to his left side unassisted several times. He has to really concentrate to drag his right leg over but he does it. Interestingly when he's doing his PT his brain works much faster and you can tell he is really focused. At PT they had him work on standing up from his wheelchair between parallel bars. His right arm can't help yet but he does most of the work himself. He took a couple very short steps with lots of help today. His left side is really strong but I could see his right quad flexing. He's chewed ice and swallowed so the Nilla Wafer therapy should be coming soon. I expect drastic improvement at that time.
I've been lucky to join Teri (Maria!) on the emotional roller coaster during my stay. It's heart-wrenching to see Nambs now compared to last Christmas when he visited us but it's equally overwhelming to see him standing himself up and working so hard. Things could be so much worse...
That being said, I encourage you to visit if you can. Nambs will give you a big "cowboy-grin" followed by hand holding and maybe a hug. It sure worked for me...
Thanks Teri for letting me blog tonight. (Or did you just want the night off?!)
Hags
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Welcome to SoCal Hags! What a surprise to read your posting tonight!! It's a nice change to have a different perspective and description on the blog. Plus, I think you're right on; Teri probably loved having a break!!! Maybe all Seattle visitors should get a turn when they visit??? They could be featured "guest bloggers"??? Just a thought... Either way, thanks for your posting and please take some pictures of Dean and of yourself so we can see you!!
Cheers,
Kris
Hey Hags,
You describe Deano as i remember him. i remember his determination when he got his knee ready for football. I never have seen anyone work so hard to get there. He knows where he wants to be and he will get there. So Mrs. Namba, Larry and Paul Saguro(sorry Paul if spelling is wrong) all got there ok? Very nice! Dean won't understand the kind of help you all have brought to the table now. But he will in the tomorrows that come. It's nice of you to "do the blog". Kind of cool! Our prayers and thoughts to Dean Henry, Teri/Maria, Riley, Coffee. Also to May, Larry and Paul. You guys are so all right! Thanks again Hags!
Dean will walk and talk on his own,
Ricky " put those tools back" Elliott
Woops! Had a long day yesterday and got the naming thing backwards... No more guest blogging for me. Tried to have Teri proof it but she said I was on my own. It was her Dad that wanted the name Theresa but her Mom wanted Maria and so Maria it was. Got that backwards last night. Sorry.
Forgot to mention that Cousin Paul made it in. Didn't see him till I was leaving Kindred this morning as he was arriving. Nambs is very alert in the mornings. I got lots of hand holding and a big hug when I left. As of this morning he's sporting a goatee. Got another crooked cowboy grin when I called it a Fu-Man-Nambs!
Most importantly I should have written about the tenderness and compassion that Teri has for Nambs. It is amazing. And when he reaches up to stroke her face or hair it's magic.
Thanks Teri for putting me up while I was there (and putting up with me) and for taking such great care of my buddy.
Looking forward to my next visit.
Hags
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