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Sunday, May 17, 2009

Sunday, May 17

Here comes the sum
Here comes the sun
And I say it's all right

Today, I was really busy at the hospital. It seems like I have learned things I never even dreamt I wanted to learn.

Dean was shaved first thing this morning (I left him with a goatee - because that is the way I like it and until Deano can tell me different), we worked on his physical therapy exercises and Deano's hands and feet were given a rub down with aloe vera (his skin is very dry and chapped). When I told him how handsome he looked he got that little grin that I really do love so much. After we finally found some one that had a mirror in their purse we let Deano take a look for himself.

Deano had a few visitors in the am and he seems to tire quickly. Today, I believe marks the 7th or 8th day with NO ventilator. The Dr.'s seemed to be pleased with his progress and today the trach was capped and he now has an oxygen mask (but not really a mask; it's those two tiny tubes inside his nose that supply oxygen). The cap will remain in place for a period of time (unknown at this point) to see how he tolerates and then eventually they will let the hole where the trach is close up. According to the Respiratory Specialist once they decide to close that up; it will close itself in one day. Also, now with only the cap in place, should Deano desire to speak he can do so. I was told by the Respiratory Specialist that it will probably take Deano a little bit of time to adjust with out the trach and just the cap. The change over to the cap really seam to affect Deano. He is coughing up quite a bit of phlegm and his eyes really look like there was something bothering him this evening. Frustrating for me because I cannot figure that one out. I made sure he wasn't running a fever and that he was turned and clean and put a cool cloth on his head. We are making progress and I just get worried when I cannot figure out what it is that seems to be causing him discomfort.

Those of you who know Deano well, know that he always believed he would marry a Blondie and today when the Blondie walked in the room she got all of his attention. Still Deano in there.

Little Darling
the smiles returning to their faces
Little Darling
its seems like years since it's been there
Here comes the sun
here coms the sun
And I say it's all right.......................

2 comments:

Karen said...

This is fantastic news! As previously posted, Deano is moving right along in Namba time. Two thumbs up on the goatee!

Karen M.

Unknown said...

Hey Teri,
Oh yes, the O2 cannula. The little 2 bump nosy thingie. I know i sound like a broken record but, what a great thing to be using when not so long ago we wondered if there was even a tomorrow. Remember 2 months ago? when none of this was real? None of this was. Now go to a month ago. How dark were the days ahead. How afraid we all were. Now a little O2 cannula. How bright the days ahead are looking! Soon you'll hear his voice. Once his eyes opened. Once he touched your hair. In a tomorrow he'll speak. you'll hear Dean's voice. Might be a bit harsh and dry. But, It'll be Dean's voice. I'll get the mop and bucket ready. That will br a happy day. My guess is he'll need some therapy to get full function so prepare......like so many things you've had to go through it'll be wonderful ....but with some negative modifiers.
You seem to be a Big Beatle fan. He comes the sun is one of my favorites. I love Richie Havens' version. He always did great versions of Beatle toons. He was good friends with George.
Blondie! Blondie? poo! There is no one that Dean would want at his side right now but you! And now after reading your words over these last weeks I don't think he could have anyone better in his corner.
With all the love of a long lost friend found....

And i say It's all right!
Ricky " Why is there never time to do something right but always time to do it over" Elliott